I know as a woman you must
be relenting under lot of pressure that she is the one who has to face all
the brunt in a relationship. So, at-least if she is doing a
love marriage she should not face any kind of pressure and rather enjoy her life
freely and trust me there is no harm if you are seeking this from a
love
marriage. But then you have to remember that in a relationship some new
responsibilities knock at your door. If you are intelligent enough you would
know that you should not succumb to pressures and rather take it as the
opportunities to make your house a home rather then shooing it away with a
comments that why I have to face it again and again. Onus is on you to take
it or ignore it.
Remember this that
woman
has a major role in the home as a home maker to see that her love
marriage should not be put to risk just because a thing has happened. It
is a tender relationship and responsibility is on both of you. A little bit
of understanding and communication will going to do
wonder for the
relationship to work like magic and will fill it will gusto of enthusiasm.
Love marriage or no love marriage, a marriage is a holy
bond and try to enter into the
holy alliance of marriage with a clear
head that you will going to put your hundred percent into it to make it go.
Love marriages are ending more in divorce these days as partner felt it
humiliating and put there ego first in case a misunderstanding crops up in
the marriage.
A
little bit of maturity
and understanding can play a vital role in saving a marriage from
derailment and that’s where the woman’s impression hit the mind as she is
the one who has all the power as to take things positively in her stride.
Often she has to go through tribulation as in love marriage it is her
who takes more challenge by going against the wishes of her
parents. Therefore, love marriage may be risky for a woman but she
should not under any circumstances lose her dignity as once her dignity is
lost she would really find it hard to gain the lost ground.