|
Don't Treat Your Date
Like One of the Guys
By Don Diebel
|
|
|
I'm sure that you are aware of how you act when
you're around your buddies. You tend to joke around with each other,
tease each other with insulting comments that are meant to be
humorous, get involved in horseplay, etc. This is all done in fun and
not meant to offend anyone. It's just a
guy thing.
It's ok to act this way when you're around your
buddies, but don't do it when you're on a date. One surefire way to
ruin a potential relationship is to treat her like one of the guys.
Don't do it!
When you tease, poke fun at, degrade, make
offensive remarks all in fun at your
date guess what happens? If she's
the sensitive type, she will get very offended. You may think this
behavior is no big deal because you're used to acting this way around
your buddies, but trust me guys, she won't appreciate it and hold it
against you.
You see, while you're making all these meant to be
funny
comments, she is keeping score.
|
|
|
Quick Links On Dating & Attraction |
Dating Tips on How to Succeed With Single Women
Dating Service and Trust: Go Well Together?
Dating in the New Millennium
Dating Scene Got You Down? Don't Despair
Be on the Lookout for Single Women Who Use You
for Financial Purposes
Dating Red Flag #9: Mistreats People in Social
Situations
Dating Red Flag #6: Brings up Marriage too
Early in the Relationship
Dating Red Flag #3: When Good Sex is Bad
Color Cues to help you Find Mr. Right
Dating for the Depressed Soul
|
|
And the score is not in you favor my friend. She will
remember all your teasing and insults and take it personally.
In closing, I just can't stress to you enough how
important it is to not treat single
women you date like one of the guys. You
will just end up hurting her feelings.
Do this instead: Make her feel good about herself and be
as romantic and affectionate towards her as possible. You will have much,
much more success with single
women if you will take this approach.
P.S. Also, don't treat your date like one of the guys
when you're on a double date. This makes matters much worse because you will
be offending her in front of others and this will really alienate her. Plus,
the other girl won't appreciate it either.
And when they go to the restroom together they may make
comments to each other about what a creep you are. By being labeled a creep,
this sure isn't going to help you get a second date. Wouldn't you agree?
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles
Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully
meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his
website at:
Article Source :
www.womenbrands.com
|