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Internet Dating: Using Email To Flirt And Get More Dates
By Lara Lopez    |   AddThis Social Bookmark Button

 

Time was when a smile, a wink, or a touch on the arm was the signal that you were interested in someone. How do you flirt online without seeming too forward or anxious for attention? Here are a few suggestions:

Respond to emails promptly. Finding a personal email in your inbox is like getting a valentine, no matter what time of year it is. So don't turn prospective suitors into nail biters. If you receive an email, reply right away. Your match will know you're paying attention, and that alone will make him or her feel special.

Remember that a little bit goes a long way. Don't flood your match's inbox with pages of spam type jokes and irrelevant anecdotes. Keep it short and sweet very sweet. A comment like "Nice abs" or "Cute smile" is short and effective. Even though you're dying to dive in and chat all day, show a little restraint. Better to leave him or her wanting more than wishing you had given it a rest.

Ask an "innocent" question. Ask if he has any special plans for the upcoming weekend or if she's doing anything on Saturday.

Not only will you find out more about what your match does with his or her free time, you may be able to find an opening for a seemingly accidental run in.

Hint, but don't tell all. Don't spill the beans all at once. Mention that you're still unpacking your overnight bag and shaking the sand out of your shoes from last weekend's great adventure. What adventure? Let your match wonder... and send you another email to get the scoop.

Remember if someone sends you a Wink, or another built in way of expressing casual interest in your profile, take it for what it is, casual interest. If you're looking for someone who is really serious, wait for a thoughtful and friendly email message that shows someone taken some time and effort on your behalf.

Greetings and Salutations

Simply saying "Hello" and "Goodbye" is important in email because you can't see the individual in person. Greetings convey courtesy and politeness that will get you off on a good foot. That said, you shouldn't say "Hello" and "Goodbye," exactly. A light and casual tone works best in email dating communications: "Hi' or "Hi there" or even "How are ya?" work better, as do "Later" or "Ciao."

Conveying Emotion

People who are new to the Internet carry around the impression that email is mechanical and can't carry nuances of emotion. Not so. You can express feelings that make the difference between a turn on and a turn off.

If you're in a bad mood, you don't need to let your mood intrude on your attempts to attract someone rather than turn him or her away. Even if you are preoccupied, respond gracefully. Use the phrase “hope to hear from you soon” at the end of a message as a clear invitation that you are interested and you want to learn more about the person you're emailing. Save that stiff business like "sincerely" for your work related correspondence.

To end your letter on a flirtatious note, turn up the heat with a "yours," or "wish I were saying this in person". A light, casual, and friendly tone works with dating correspondence, not a formal or heavy handed touch.

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