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The conventional wisdom about online dating used to be that it was only for people who were a) desperate, b) computer geeks, or c) shy about their physical appearance. Thankfully, online dating has hit the mainstream; it's widely accepted as one of the best ways to meet people, no matter how comfortable you are with what's in the mirror or with megabytes, SCSI ports, and wireless LAN adapters.

No matter what your goals and your background, if you want to meet someone online, you need to sign up with a dating service. You'll make the best choice if you go into it with realistic expectations. One of the myths about online dating is that it is some sort of cure all for the dating challenged. However, newbies to online dating have many erroneous beliefs, more specifically:

- Online dating is dangerous. It can be in some cases, but if you use common sense and apply some simple safeguards, you have no more chance of running into a "bad" person than you would traditional dating in the real world.

- Chatting and emailing online helps people get to know one another on a deeper level than a blind date or other dating experience in the real world. To some extent this is true. If you're looking for your soul mate, you may be able to become close friends quickly, without being sidetracked by an actual body revealing all those nonverbal quirks. But people who marry a fantasy are likely to have a short and unpleasant honeymoon. There are many real life intangibles that can end a relationship that began online just as quickly as it started. There's no magic way to gauge compatibility and that hard to define emotional quality called "chemistry."

- You learn the truth about people through online dating. True, you may get a better picture of how a person would like to be seen. None of us, though, are completely objective about our strengths and weaknesses. Only the person living with another human being knows for sure whether they really put the cop back on the toothpaste every morning, no matter what they claim.

It may be an obvious follow up to the last point, but it bears repeating: The fact the people con reveal so much about themselves in such a short period of time actually makes it easy for dating site participants to be dishonest. Photos placed online might be years old; the individual could have gained 30 pounds since it was taken. There also is no way to know whether someone has described himself or herself accurately in their profile. Survey questions may not have been answered with perfect accuracy.

No matter what service you choose, you need to exercise patience and maintain a healthy skepticism. It's also advantageous, from the standpoint of accuracy and getting to know how someone really looks and acts, to consider a site that allows participants to post multiple photos of themselves and that permits the addition of video clips or webcams that shoot movies of clients as they chat online. As you'll discover, online dating services have their own personalities, and some of the differences are subtle; in other words, they're just like the people you meet through those services.

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