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Christian
Dating Tip Do's and Don'ts for First Dates
By David
Butler |
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No matter how many online Christian dating tips you have
read, going on your first date with someone you met though one of the online
dating services can be cause for a little anxiety. After all, the primary
purpose of a first date is to assess whether there is enough chemistry to
spend even more time together. Before the first date, questions abound such
as:
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What will we do on our first date?
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What should I wear?
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What should be the topic of conversation?
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How do I end the first date?
While each first date is as different as the number of
singles in the world, there are a number of "first date do's and dont's"
that can help you have a great time. We hope the following first date
Christian dating tips help you in this area:
Christian Dating Tips: First Date Do's
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This first dating step should occur before you step out
your door.
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Make sure you are familiar with online safety
dating
tips, and plan accordingly.
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Choose activities where you will be able to speak
with your date. I know movies and concerts are popular dates, but
what good is it if you spend three hours together, but are not able to
verbally communicate? Remember, great conversation causes sparks to fly,
and is also a way to ascertain where your date's heart is.
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Be totally centered on your date, even if there are
numerous people nearby. This means giving your utmost attention to them by
listening intently to their words and body language. This will not only
help you interpret how the first date is going and when to call it a
night, but will also make the other person feel more confident and
relaxed.
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Your dress should be casual and attractive, but not
sexually provocative. I'm sure you know what I mean (:
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Use humor to relax yourself and your date.
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As Christian singles, it is totally appropriate and
attractive to end the evening holding hands in prayer to the Lord, asking
Him to guide you in this dating relationship.
Christian Dating Tips: First Date No-Nos
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Never spend your first date speaking about your
previous relationships and dating partners. Nothing is a bigger turnoff or
more boring. Yuck!
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Try not to monopolize the conversation by centering too
much on your own stories and needs.
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Please do not share your deepest, darkest secrets (and
everyone has some) on your first date. We are not saying to not be honest
and open, just allow some time to get to know each other in person.
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Don't over stay your first date, but always leave them
wanting more. Spending too much time on your first date is similar to a
preacher who had a great sermon for the first 30 minutes. Unfortunately,
he droned on for 60 more. Yawn! The lesson: Always leave your date wanting
more of you, not less.
Article Source :
www.womenbrands.com
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